crystalized.

shes in love with him and always willing to accept his wrong doings as he isnt at a point in his life where he is ready for serious commitment. asking if she has to keep up the pace is her asking if they will arrive at a point where she can stop having to turn the other way when he runs off with another girl. he portrays selfishness and does not want the her to rush or push him hence his actions on communication. hes made steps to settle down in small ways but too slow for her. shes becoming numb and is becoming tired of his antics. they are both falling in love, but are scared that one will control and the other will commit infidelities.